Mum signed on to hospice today. There is a lot more to say, but I can type none of it. She will not be in pain. This is important. How much time she has left is unknown, but she wishes not to fight the cancer anymore. She’s had enough, and at the end of your life, if nothing else, if you can’t get a “mircale” then you must get what you wish. She gave me durable POA 7 years ago, just in case something like this occurred. She was in too much pain to sign the papers. I did so for her. It is her wish and when someone entrusts you with POA, you are honor bound to make their wishes come true.
It hurts like hell.